Maybe it’s because I’m a Londoner.
I recently read an interesting and highly refreshing take on the eternally controversial issue of ‘who you should be entitled to support’. It effectively stated that whatever team the most influential person in your life growing up support’s, that’s who you should support. In this interview it was a die-hard United fan who said, quite honestly, that he supported United because his dad did and that he is the one that got him into football; however had his dad supported city, then so would he. This mature mentality is not only completely fair, but completely logical. It is a breath of fresh, rational air that to me (a Southern United fan) makes perfect sense; and the other, more popular perspective of ‘you should only support your local team’ seem out of place and far too ignorant in this modern footballing world.
My dad moved to Manchester in the early 70’s. He instantly embraced Manchester – its culture, lifestyle and vibrancy – and in the same way, Manchester embraced him. He inevitably discovered the city’s proud footballing heritage and, just like Keano, he unquestionably saw Old Trafford and said ‘I fancy that’…or, to quote another United song, he weighed up the other bluer option and thought ‘I’d rather shag a bucket with a big hole in it’. Although not originally from the area, the ‘glory hunter’ tag that is so flippantly placed on all non-Manchester born Red’s should not affect him, as he came to England in his early 20’s in ‘72: and in 1974 we were relegated to the old Second Division, with city in fact boasting the label as top team in Lancashire. My dad was merely inspired by the city he called home; the first place he lived in England (after moving from Cyprus), and thus adopted the local team as his own, regardless of the untraditionally low standards of football they were playing around this time.
I’d like to say that he chose United based on their legacy and the undying aura created by team’s gone by: from the Busby Babes to the ‘Holy Trinity’; or that he’d been to see them play and thought their style was special and utterly appealing – even though, as mentioned, this was a considerably poor period for them. But, the fact of the matter is that he was probably influenced, as many of us are, by the people around him.
His educational and occupational path saw him leave Manchester after 5 years; moving eventually to London in the 80's, where he set-up for the long-term (along with nearly half the entire Cypriot population at the time). As soon as his son was old enough to understand the game, he continued this tradition and showed him – no, told him – the team to support. Regardless of the fact that I was born in Wood Green (3 stops north of Arsenal on the Piccadilly Line), went to school in Edmonton (walking distance from Tottenham) and spent my entire childhood in North London, I was never going to support another team.
Fortunately, unlike my dad, I was brought up to support United during a time of prosperity and greatness. Change and transformation was on the cards, as United won the FA cup in 1990 (Ferguson’s first trophy after 4 disappointing years) followed by League Cup and Cup Winners Cup success in 1992; and then, essentially, their first League title for 26 years in 1993. Ferguson’s revival and inspired, now legendary, signings in those early years initiated and reinstated an almost forgotten Championship winning mentality in our team that has survived and stood the test of time. Although many players and teams have come and gone over my 23 years as a fan – and Ferguson’s 23 years at the club – the presence and impression of Manchester United is constantly one of superiority.
Unfortunately for me though, having not been born within the vicinity of Trafford Park or at least been a loyal fan through the dark 80's, this successful period of the club’s history has in fact put a stain on all Southern Red’s, as it symbolises the sole reason as to why we support them. No one from my generation has a chance; as clearly we are all 'glory-hunters' who have jumped on the bandwagon and cunningly decided to support the most popular, victorious team around; regardless of their distance from our birthplace.
The bashing I have received for NOT supporting Arsenal, Tottenham or Enfield FC and instead supporting a team a couple of hundred miles away has been brutal yet consistent. Never has anyone had another perspective other than ‘but you’re not from Manchester…’. The point that I see United every home game and have been going to Old Trafford, and wherever else I can grab tickets for, since I was 10; even though I live a couple of hundred miles away, has never arisen amongst the bitter masses who just cant accept that their teams aren’t as good as mine. My love, passion and adoration for my team is undying, and like the ignorance of all those haters, it will be everlasting.
The commitment I make to get from London to Manchester for every match, as well as the inert ability United have to rapidly alter my emotions, is enough ‘proof’ that my support is real (not that I should EVER need to prove to anyone that I’m a proper Red). My interest and instigation to follow United was initiated by my dad, but the passion is all my own.
The emotional attachment my dad feels towards the club may have drifted over the years due to his physical detachment from the place as well as a change in priorities. For me however, as someone who has had to follow United the hard way – travelling hours to see them, arriving home at 2am on a school night after a Champions League game; and not to mention the money a fan of the 90’s has had to spend on supporting Manchester United ‘the company’ – my feelings towards the team have only strengthened. But more than anything, it’s entirely what happens on the pitch that affects me (and all fans) the most, no matter where I am when they play. Whether losing an FA Cup Final, European Cup Final, or 2-0 at Anfield last Sunday – and whether I’m there in the ground or simply listening to the radio – my emotional state before, during and after the match tells me, every time, that the almost unhealthy affection I have towards this team officially labels me a ‘fan’.
I am not from Manchester. I’m not even from the North. I am from London; and I support Manchester United – because my dad supports them and he got me into football.
And if that isn’t enough to shut the ignorant haters up when they ask, ‘so what part of Manchester are you from?’ (and I don’t think they ever will), then I will always be inspired by the banner at the opposite end of the ground to where I sit:
‘Our history makes us strong. Your hate makes us stronger’.
Excellent article!!! There are quite a few fans who have been waiting to say that!!!
ReplyDeleteI"m from syria which is thousands miles away from manchester and i supported united since i was 8 . I watch every match follow every detail read every available information watch every video i can get feel gutted when they lose feel great when they win . so i"m not entitled to support them and i should be supporting my city team here? .
ReplyDeleteYou are spot on u support the team that had the biggest affect on u . But i guess there is one important thing . U should support them when they are winning and losing and never change your heart about your team i mean u dont support united today and arsenal tomorrow . And supporting two teams in the same time is stuppid i know a lot of guys who support oxford or exeter or burtonalbion and they are also manchester united or chelsea or madrid . I guess that"s come from wanting to win not loving the team . My english is shit i hope i can express better but i guess u get the idea.
Brilliant read, well said and i admire your passion and belief and so what if you dont come from Salford etc, you are still a devoted fan of the best club the world has to offer, win lose or draw, we are back for more.
ReplyDeleteThank you guys for your comments, I'm glad you all agree with what I had to say. It's an issue I feel strongly about because of all the crap that's been said about me not being a proper fan over the years, so it's good that people can at least empathise with me.
ReplyDeleteA true Red is in the heart not the post code ---- good on you and a belting read
ReplyDelete: read, digested and proud! my dad got me into football and he supports man utd!
ReplyDeleteI'm from the U.S. and I'm a die-hard Man Utd supporter. I came late to the game (it not being a staple around here as it is there) and the first match I ever saw was Man Utd vs. Chelsea. I fell in love immediately with the magic and beauty of the game, and I started supporting United because my best friend (who is from Wigan) did. It's a shared passion, and being who I am, my loyalty to the club won't change regardless of their statistics.
ReplyDeleteCouldn't have put it better myself, that's an excellent read!
ReplyDeleteI live on the other side of the world, but I'm a United fan because my dad supported United and I've been since I was 5, and there's no other club in the world I'd support no matter how much abuse I'd get from people around me.
It's ironic because the people around who use the label "glory hunter" on United fans like myself support clubs from England too, despite being a thousand miles away. Liverpool fans in particular love that tag, but like you say, we shouldn't ever have to prove that we're fans.
Exactly. The love and passion we feel for our team can easily be as much - sometimes more - than that felt by fans who were Salford born and bred. My point is, which I'm glad a lot of you agree with, is exactly that: it shouldn't matter where you come from, as long as your support is genuine then that's enough.
ReplyDeleteI am united fan from India, Unfortunately, I feel like most people everywhere else around the world aren’t really genuine in their support. The first united game i saw, was a defeat at the hands of madrid. We were underdogs in the game and that made me support united. As I started watching more games I absolutely fell in love with club. It as given me so much joy over the past few years. I have supported united through our lows, arsenals unbeaten streak, our trophyless season, the arrogance of mourinho and chelsea, our failure to qualify for the champions league.
ReplyDeleteBut these lows has made my passion for the club more than it has ever been. The lows are the ones that make the highs even higher. It has given me the incredible feeling that no one can give me, our win which ended arsenals streak, fletchers looping header over cech, Rooneys goal against everton in a 4-2 win, scholes goal against blackburn, terrys slip in the champions league finals, I even felt great when mellor gave liverpool the win over arsenal.
What am trying to say is that though our club as many people who have jumped on the bandwagon just because we are winning they will never have the same passion and will never experience the highs that we feel. It annoys me when someone who was once supporting arsenal, or liverpool celebrates uniteds victory acts theyve been supporting us through the hard times. But i have just learned not to care, they never will have the same passion.
This is a great and very emotional piece of work. As the person named several times in this article I can safely say that I feel proud to read this in knowledge that I have been such a positive influence on Pos and his footballing passion.
ReplyDeleteReading through, at times I felt touched by the sensitivity , depth and beauty of the coverage. Simple as it may sound this is a very difficult topic to tackle and Pos has covered it most articulately and accurately from the only angle that could do it justice, the angle of the "heart", from the early boyish years to the mature adult present time.
well done, really proud of you !
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I was born in Johannesburg South Africa.The only football team my family has ever supported is United. People give me stick all the time about the fact that im not from manchester. What can I say, I was brought up a United fan, my father was a united fan all his life... Its in my blood.
ReplyDeleteMy father and i fly 10 000 miles to england at least twice a year to watch what ever games we can. To those who question my loyalty and call me a glory hunter, i say fuck off, pay the money i have and travel distances I have just to watch 90 minutes of football... Then talk to me about loyalty. Come on you REDS!!!
Great article!
By the way I also used to live in woodgreen!
I live in Negara Brunei Darussalam try finding that in a map!
ReplyDeletemy dad is not into football at all. 2 of my uncles used to study near Liverpool and always attended their games. I support Manchester United when I first watched the champions league final comeback in 1999 i was only 8 then. The thing that got me to love this club is the fighting spirit and mentality that has never changed! The history of this club is just wonderful.
My dream 2 years ago was to watch C.Ronaldo playing in a United shirt before he eventually left but i did not have a chance to. A plane ticket there would already cost $2k how can a 17 year old afford that ? I want to have the chance to visit Old Trafford so i can sing along with all the other fans in the stand this football club is just so wonderful !!
This all seems fair enough.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I doubt very much that you be/ would have been travelling up to Manchester every week to watch a team languishing in the second division. If Arsenal were the top team you would be supporting them because 'they are local'.
Did you not understand the piece or are you just another ignorant United hater? I support United because my dad does. Pretty sure I made that clear as I even dedicated an entire paragraph to it.
ReplyDeleteI have no interest in football.
ReplyDeleteFootball is for boys and I am a girl.
Although I have no time for the beautiful game, I do have ample time for a beautiful, literary gem, that was your blog.
Well done.